RELATIONSHIP GROWTH
In our journey towards Heart-True fullness
We may find parts of ouselves residing in different stages
All our infinite paths can be changed and healed
3 STAGES
1) “ME-ME”
My way or the highway – obey the boss – monarch of the castle
Selfish grabs for energy – “There can only be one” power imbalances
2) “50/50″
Equally dividing the pie – safe compromises – empty negotiations
Self-made independence – both win or nothing – controlled agreements
3) “HEART-TRUE”
Opening our hearts – surrendering to love – giving our deepest gifts
Selfless spiritual oneness – winning as one – learning to live as LOVE
DEPENDENCE
INDEPENDENCE
INTERDEPENDENCE
1) ME-ME
Wanting to be needed, requiring partner validations of ;
Strength, beauty, power, love, importance, acceptance, self-worth etc
Waiting for our white knight or frog kissing princess to save us
Can lead to negative and abusive energy transfers between partners
2) 50/50
Admires independence – standing on our own feet
Balancing self love and stability with “space” to do what we want
With equal opportunity we may develop shallow co-promisory gestures
Leading to heart-guardedness and emotional withdrawal
3) HEART-TRUE
Remaining true to our dreams and intertwining our life paths
Taking full responsibility for our own actions with heart knowledge
Empowering each other to grow thru our own decision processes
Loving every breath, behaviour, thought, emotion of our beings
SUPPORT
1) ME-ME
Don’t like criticism or advice that might open up other avenues
Demanding full support – pleasing and peacekeeping
Unable to receive good ideas, unless convinced it was ours
2) 50/50
Respect and acknowledges our partner’s ideas equally
In disagreements, we willingly compromise, even if unhappy
Supporting the decisions rather than each other
3) HEART-TRUE
Cherish the caring depths of our partner’s intuition
Lovingly exploring each others path
We search until both partners strengths are realized
Freely offering our full support, growing and releasing in peace
INTIMACY
1) ME-ME
Want our sexy lover to give physical pleasure whenever required
Focus is on external body characteristics and self-gratification
2) 50/50
Communicates sexual desires freely, sometimes passionlessly
Carefully giving and receiving pleasure within our comfort levels
Can be like a business partnership – devoid of empathy and caring
3) HEART-TRUE
Choosing each other as our most intimate sensual energy source
Silent deep gazing, touching tenderly, melding into infinite love
Vulnerably unprotected – reconnecting, drawn into & thu each other
Consciously ravishing and dissolving into boundless ecstasy
Risking openness and surrendering to divine sacred energies
FAMILY
1) ME-ME
Expect to be cared for with a smile
Needing parental assurances and support from our partner
2) 50/50
Desire neutrally relaxed stable atmospheres
Creating a stable, sometimes loveless relationship
3) HEART-TRUE
Integrate our varying aspects freely with friends and entire family
Creating a sanctuary of complete trust and soul deep presence
Where the heart, body and spirit can reside in Peace
LIFE MISSION
1) ME-ME
Use our partner to fill the voids we have created
When not self-absorbed, we tolerate & raid each others energy
2) 50/50
Sets aside current projects to be dutiful with our Equity Partner
May be resentful for the distraction from our sense of purpose
3) HEART-TRUE
Patiently act in alignment with our highest purposes
So when together – we wholeheartedly receive each others’ presence
Growth and empowerment of each other is our spiritual mission
UNION
1) ME-ME
An immature union often based in childhood fears of losing love etc
Craving energy to avoid our uncomfortable and unhealed past
Achieving dominance over one another, undermines the partnership
2) 50/50
A mature union based on adult controls of fair-play and distancing
Between success and safety, we always return to our comfort zones
Adhering to “equal or nothing” – with acceptable negotiated losses
3) HEART-TRUE
A spiritual union of respect, trust and intertwined soul-fullness
Releasing our inner boundaries – gently healing with flowing love
Our Heart-oneness in blissful communion beyond the heavens
ENJOY THE JOURNEY
With Hearts Full of Grace
Our tears bless our sadnesses
Rique’
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